Agree with you. But I also don’t personally know very many men (a few, ok, one) who do the right thing if they aren’t going to either get paid, get credit/points, or something dire will happen if they don’t. That’s why they don’t contribute to household chores, the shit work at work, etc. Not only do they feel that it’s beneath them, they simply don’t feel that it’s necessary or in any way profitable for them.