Boys may needs fathers/father figures but men don’t really want kids or to do all that, do they? Many husbands are angry when their wife turns her attention to the children; they are not happy to bea useful parent and resent her exhaustion and the shift from being the center of her universe. They are angry if her body changes and paw at her for sex (that she doesn’t enjoy and eventually tries to avoid bc he’s bad at it and not nice to he/the kids). In my observations of men and kids, they mostly understand Hershel Walker.