But that’s not actually how people work. It’s like being a hiring manager. You see the pool of candidates that you have in for an actual interview and then decide if it’s worth the misery er, investment, turning a D player into a C player. Most women don’t expect an A player out of the gate (although they’ve been expected to “look right” and be “wife material” along with all the same life responsibilities as men professionally and educationally as a single person, earning less and everything from tampons, medical care, razors, and haircuts costing more.). Women will spend the energy to coach a B player into an A player, but those “standards” of hygiene, grooming, focus on physical health are not vanity! Women are no longer interested in running after their husbands nagging them to eat healthy, wipe their asses, and go for regular checkups bc we don’t want to toilet them when they’re 64 with ED and failing health and rooted to an EZ boy, screaming at Fox News about woke people.