I am not sure that you have given concrete enough examples for your target audience: for example, if you stated, learn how to take negative feedback/instructions without getting all pissy, or else she will never tell you what you aren’t doing right in bed, out of fear of upsetting your clearly fragile ego, and soon, she will opt out of bedtime fun, bc it’s only fun for you, ya baby! Plus she will think less of you bc you put her in that position and are too stupid and selfish to figure it out!