I think a lot of women have what feels like a “sexless, touch less existence” when they’re married or in a LTR bc many times their (male) partner fixates on pornography as the standard for women and also sex education, and consequently an actual woman’s body and pleasure are unfamiliar and not all that interesting to him. His wife is sort of an unattractive scrub hag with a chore list and the mortgage that he tolerates bc he must, *sigh* but yeah, he loves her. But she’s not Margot Robie, who he really wishes he could have.