I think it would be really interesting if men in general did “informal surveys” of the women in their lives and asked them, on average, how many men they’d been with were satisfying lovers, how many set their world on fire, and in general, what percentage of sexual encounters (with men) they considered truly satisfied afterwards with in general. I think they’d be surprised. No point in asking directly about your own scores: if she is remotely kind, she’ll score up in front of you.