I think it’s funny how many people think “staying together for the kids” is supposed to be about feelings. It’s not. These morons subject their children to their shitty relationship for their formative years, damaging their future relationships forever, and then wreck the family financially forever by divorcing when the kids are in college. Dad starts a new family and is now Mr. Wonderful Dad with the new kids and Mom is poor- the kids will support her later on. You stay together for the kids for financial reasons. Or divorce young, so Mom can remarry so she’s not a bag lady.