I’ve asked this question every time I’ve read a comment from a husband/man who’s wife has lost interest in sex. Don’t they ever figure out that on some level (orgasm gap, hint hint) she didn’t marry him because of his sexual prowess and now that he’s acting like an ordinary putz she is not able to look past his shortcomings in the sack. So, after a great deal of thought Ive wondered if there is a certain level of selfishness that renders you so blind that the glaring truth of the matter becomes impossible to understand.