Like your husband, Wedge here cares about your happiness as much your husband’s toothbrush! It’s because you saw internet photos that his complete dismissal of you and your accomplishments and contributions hurt!
Well his first line says it all! A MAN is correcting you - (he disagrees twice!!!) happiness is not any part of marriage!
His wife is one lucky lady!! Think of the lectures she gets if she has the audacity to share a lived experience with this blowhard!!
Maybe you can move on and he can marry your husband. They can both be right all the time together.