My husband’s mother never taught him that her “bag” was sacred but she always had an actual bag…like a canvas tote bag from LLBean as opposed to a purse…and he’d just reach his paw in, looking for something as opposed to bringing me my purse to retrieve the item for him. Until I explained it’s the equivalent of reaching into a man’s front pocket for his money clip and maybe finding his Valtrex and Viagra as a bonus!