One is a literal self-inflicted wound. The other is not. The perpetrator is the same gender, suggesting that the disregulated, dysfunctional gender is not female. However, the men are still the ones pointing the finger at women and demanding that women are being so awful and feminism has ruined society. It isn’t feminism that drives this; it’s refusal to adapt, for generations, which is confusing. No one wants to use a corded phone and drive a Pinto. Why cling to an outdated idea of a social structure? That hurts them?