The other problem with his approach is that he’s a galactic prophylactic. He’s a conversation killer. He doesn’t seem to be able to handle a negotiation or even understand that those conversations are how you learn each other’s moods, personalities and preferences. He’s just trying to shut down the conversation quickly and move forward to the action part of the process, and because he’s abdicated all responsibility for the situation by forcing her to decide, he can act blameless. Exhausting. He’s an avoidant coward. Maybe a nice guy, but he’s using her as a human shield. She’s gonna feel like his mommy.