Well…in purity culture (how evangelicals raise children), which is grooming for rape culture, due to the combination of patriarchal hierarchy requiring complete domination by the highest ranking (older males) combined with female virginity, girls are truly expected to choose death over rape/coercion if they’re not married to a man. That’s truly the reason they don’t “believe” in sexual abuse. If you had an honor or loved Jebus, you’d choose death over being sexually compromised. This feeds into this victim-blaming …apparently even sitting in the front row somehow invited this abuse?
I’m sorry for your completely undeserved verbal abuse.
FWIW, a woman withholding approval from an attention-whore like this turd was probably so painful for him! So maybe that’s a little bit satisfying. He worked really hard to compensate, and came and found you…now that is a man with a carbuncle on the ass of his soul.