Women usually can take one look at a man and tell if she could ever imagine being attracted to him. We can instantly tell a definite NO and a definite MAYBE. So didn’t feel a connection means she cannot imagine ever wanting to being more than platonic and because that’s not what men are looking for and the relationships where a perfectly nice guy that you know you’ll be avoiding sending the wrong signals to and never being able to relax around sucks, you just try not to make eye contact so you don’t have this fucking conversation.