Wow, I watched that video and thought that lady certainly felt like women were needed to blame themselves for their lack of attraction to their husbands! It certainly couldn’t be a reaction to ANYTHING circumstantial, health wise, or in reaction to him. Sheesh ladies, get your heads together and start having marital relations that you don’t want with a man you don’t desire anymore! He doesn’t need to address anything but quick! His hard on is practically an emergency and needs to be respected, so don’t emasculate him with your hysterical attitude!